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Post by ALYSSA JANE WILLIAMS on Jul 14, 2011 12:11:41 GMT -5
"Well.... That didn't work out as well as I'd hoped.." Alyssa sighed as she stood up from were she was sitting on the bed and began to walk out the door, down the hall a little ways, and than to the stairs. She could hear her daughters soft sobbing. There were two options. Let her daughter cry out her feelings, or go, and try and make things better, but, at the moment she believed that she was the last person she wanted to see. She ended up walking down stairs, and spotted Savvy cuddling her toys. She frowned slightly. Savvy obviously believed that her toys were more comforting than her own Mother. 'Well if you just stand hear, she's right.' she thought to her self as she walked over to Savvy. "Hey there girly..." she said as she sat down, and pulled Savannah in to her lap, cuddling her close to her chest. She began to stroke the child's hair.
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Post by princess on Jul 14, 2011 12:45:13 GMT -5
Savannah just cried as she held her toys, they provide comfort.Right now,they were only ones in the house that did not think that she was a baby. Apparently, everybody in the house though that she was a baby and needed diapers. The girl just wanted to hide from everybody and just play with her toy.She did not care if her pull up got damp or not, she did not care. If it was up to her, she would just rip her pull up and just get back her undies but that was not an option right now. Her mom had put her pull ups on the drawer that used to hold her undies. She was sad but this was not her fault, she could the girl would go whenever she needed to but right now, she could not. Savvy was confident that she was going conquer this and be big girl like her sisters but right now,she just needed her toys.
The girl just rolled her eyes as she looked at her mom, she did not want say anything.Savannah was sort of mad but sort of happy that her Mother was there. She sobbed as she looked at her and just held her doll. The girl smiled as her mother ruffled her hair,it was a good feeling. But all of this did not take the sting of what happen earlier,she was still hurt. Even though her mother in her play room made her feel a little bit better.
"Why you think I'm a baby?"She paused, "You replace all my undies with pull ups in my drawer and also now you want me tell you when I need to go potty.You know I'm six not two right?'The girl spoke as she held up six fingers, she wanted to drive point home that she was a big girl not a baby. Savannah sobbed but in between the crying, she cracked a smiled and just looked at her mother. "Mommy, do you think I need potty training again and I need pull ups?"She held her favorite barbie closed as she sucked her thumb.
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Post by ALYSSA JANE WILLIAMS on Jul 14, 2011 13:42:49 GMT -5
"I don't think your a baby honey." Alyssa said. She'd all ways think of Savvy as her little girl, and she'd all ways be her baby, but she didn't want her to think she thought of her like that, she called her, her baby girl out of love. She sighed. "Yes honey, for a while I want you to wear your pull-ups. I won't tell anybody about them, not your sisters, Daddy, or Teacher. It'll be just between us." she said. "I promise." she said, holding Savvy closer. "And you don't need potty training honey.. You know how to use the potty, you just need to learn when you can't hold it, and you need to know when you gotta go, you gotta go. Now, I know you know that, but actions speak louder than words, so, I need you to show me you know."
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Post by princess on Jul 14, 2011 15:48:58 GMT -5
Savannah just rolled her eyes and sobbed, she knew her mom was bending truth a little bit.She sobbed as she looked at her mom, "Mommy,I know you got tell my sister because if I need help when I'm being babysit by them and you also got tell my teacher in case she needs to help me.You just think I'm baby not big girl." She sobbed as she turned her back to her mom and just walked to her play house, she sat inside and just closed the door. The girl just wanted to be alone for now with her thoughts. She hated how she was being treated by the person that she loved the most,her Mother. The girl looked at her dolls and just sighted, they were only ones that could comfort her for now.
She did not want respond to her mother, Savannah just wanted to be left alone for now. Savannah just sighted as she grab one of her tea cup and just fed it to her doll. The girl was happy with her dolls and toys, she could get away from her unpleasant life right now. Savannah sighted as she grabbed spoon and fed her doll some more food. Her dolls seemed to understand her more like her mother did, she sighted as she held her dolls. She cracked a smiled as held her doll closed by and feed her some more food.
As she heard her mom speak, Savannah looked at her as she held her dolls, "You think I need potty training,if not you would not put me stupid pull ups. I can't help,I tried to make and I fail there is nothing i can do."She paused, "If you did not think I need potty training,why you put my reward chart on fridge and my name in big.I saw it when I came to my playroom."Savannah just sobbed as she held dolls, she was sad at the moment. She grabbed her dolls and just played with them as she sat on her play house."I try to show you but I just can't make it,I hate being escorted by mommy to bathroom."Savannah just sighted as she looked at her doll, though that her parents though that her dolls were even more big girls than her.
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Post by ALYSSA JANE WILLIAMS on Jul 14, 2011 22:06:26 GMT -5
Alyssa was getting a little over this. Okay, she understood that Savannah was upset, and hurt, but being the drama queen she knew her daughter was, she knew the best thing for her was not to be left alone, to go into a shell, and never come out. "Savannah, come hear right now." Alyssa stood up,and crossed her arm across her chest. "When I say NOW young lady, I mean NOW." she said stiffly. Sometime the only thing to get Savannah to obey was to get up in her face, and tell her what the deal was. She would not raise a bratty, sobbing, tantrum throwing child. She had raised two older girls, who, would hate to admit it, but had a few accidents in their life as well, and Alyssa had taught them how to wash their sheets encase in the middle of the night such an even did occur. Of course, they'd out grown the habit, and so Alyssa had no doubt Savannah would as well.
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Post by princess on Jul 14, 2011 22:17:11 GMT -5
Savannah did not want move from her doll house but apparently her mother was not very happy with her. She wanted to disobey her mother and not go where she was.But the girl did not wanted to tempt her fate by getting her mother mad at her, she just needed to suck it up and just face consequences. She sighted as she grabbed one of her dolls and just looked at her play house,it seemed to be the best place to be so far. The girl opened the door of her play house and just walked slowly towards where her mom was. She was ready for spanking or whichever punishment her mother had in mind for her.
The girl just looked down as she shifted from leg to leg before looking at her mother.Savannah held her doll close by as she spoke, "Mommy,sorry for throwing tantrum."She just sighted as she hated admitted that she was wrong.But her mother always had her best interest in mind even if Savannah did not wanted to admit it.
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Post by ALYSSA JANE WILLIAMS on Jul 14, 2011 22:48:06 GMT -5
Alyssa was stone faced, but she did nod in response to her daughters apology. She did admire her daughter in a way, as it was impressive how she could apologize when she knew she was wrong. Alyssa didn't know if it was the clear her conscientious, or to get out of trouble. Either way, for such a young child, Savannah, in her Mothers eyes, was probably to mostly mature out of her children. She uncrossed her arms, and as she turned, she gently took Savannah's hand into her own, and lead the child to the Sofa. She sat down in the middle and held both her child's wrists as she stood her youngest daughter in front of her. "Now Savannah she began. "I want to start off by saying I'm not angry with you." she said. "Okay?" I'm not mad at you, I love you too much to be mad at you." she said as she kept her plain face on, and held onto her child's wrists, and now her hands. "I want to help, you and for me to help you, I need you to help me help you, and for you to help your self. So that's a big job." she said as she gave her child's hands a soft squeeze. "We can take the potty chart down. BUT when you know you have to use the potty, you can't put it off, you have to be honest and tell me." she said. "I went through the same thing as you are honey... So did your sisters for a while, and they thought I was treating them like babies to, but, if it ever seems like I'm babying you, it's because in Mommy's minds, your all ways our little babies."
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Post by princess on Jul 15, 2011 2:27:20 GMT -5
Savannah really did not know what to say at the moment, for the first time in her young life she was at lost for words. She just wanted to cry and bury her head on her mommy’s lap and just stay there.But she could not do that, the young girl had to say something about what her mom had said, her Mother had never been this truthful with her before. The girl just smiled as she held her mommy’s hands, she was glad that she could always count on her. Sure, there might be some consequences afterwards, but there was something that trouble could never replace and that was a mother’s love. She smiled as she looked at her mommy, ”Mommy, I did not know that you and my sisters had the same problem. I guess I’m not alone, I should not be ashamed about it and just trust the plan that mommy has for me.”
She shook her head when she heard her mother talk about removing the potty chart, Savannah did not want that. The girl took a deep breath as she looked at her mommy, ”Don’t take my potty chart from fridge please. If I see it every day, it will remind me that I need keep dry like the big girl like I am.”She paused, ”If I can keep dry not only can I earn my undies back but also I can get a special treat.That is something to strive for.”She just smiled as she hugged her mother, she was glad that she could have her mother’s love. Savannah just smiled as she continued to hug her doll and her mommy.
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Post by ALYSSA JANE WILLIAMS on Jul 15, 2011 10:18:51 GMT -5
Alyssa smiled and held her daughter close, cuddling her like she'd done when Savannah was a very little girl She held the girl in her lap in a side ways manner, so Savannah's head was tucked under her chin. She began to rock her daughter softly her arms wrapped around her little baby girl. Alyssa smiled down at the child, knowing that she could never understand how much she truly loved her. "I'm glad we've reached terms honey." she mused as she decided she was just going to hold Savannah for as long as she wanted to be held. She was probably the last of her 3 children, so the cuddling was refreshing. Her two older daughters would rather die than be cuddled for long periods of time at their ages.
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Post by princess on Jul 15, 2011 11:23:54 GMT -5
Even though, she was still sort of mad at her mother, Savannah loved cuddling with her mommy. The girl felt safe around her mommy, no monsters or evil things could touch her. As much as she wanted to act like a big girl, she was still little even though she hate to admit it. She was glad that she was the youngest of her sister, she was little more spoiled and was babying more. The girl at times hated being babying so much but she knew it was part of being littlest one. She was not going complain about it, the girl was just going take it in stride and learn all she could. Sure, she could act like her older sisters and make fuss about being cuddle and hug, but she wasn’t. Savannah loved cuddling especially with her mommy. The girl cracked a smile as she laid there on her mommy’s lap.
”I’m happy we reached terms too,mommy.”She paused for a minute,”If I don’t make it besides getting a frowny face,would I get punished?”Savannah just smiled as she moved a little around her mommy’s lap to get comfortable. She closed her eyes and just let her mommy cuddle with her. The girl was in her happy place and nobody could take her from there.
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Post by ALYSSA JANE WILLIAMS on Jul 15, 2011 12:01:46 GMT -5
Alyssa thought about this. She'd never punished her children for this type of thing. "Yes Savanah... Every time you don't make it to the potty, you'll have an early bed time, and I'll give you a little spanking to remind you to use the potty." she wasn't sure how much she agreed with this, but she hoped that this would be a hollow threat, perhaps the thought of these punishments would make Savvy try harder to make it to the potty. "And the longer you wet your pull-ups, the longer you have to ware them, I'll check to make sure sure your wet, or dry, and I'll change you like a little baby girl." she finished. "We'll start this today... Now honey... Are you wet right now? If you are I won't punish you, as this just begun... You can tell me right now, but if you lie, and I check, that you will be punished."
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Post by princess on Jul 15, 2011 14:18:53 GMT -5
Savannah was convinced that her mommy had her best interest in mind, no matter how much she disagreed with her. Even though she did not like being treated younger, she had to admit that somebody at least care for her.The girl was going try to make her mommy proud and make it every time she could, Savannah was going to show her she was big girl. Right now, the word big girl was way out of her vocabulary, she had lost almost everything she had earned the last two years. She did not know why her body had betrayed her but she was ready to conquer this problem like she had conquer other problems in her life. If she had learned to go potty, she was confident that she could overcome this too. There was nothing in her life that she could not do, Savannah was going show her parents and her sisters that she could do this. She was tired of this battle but she needed to fight it and not give up, she was going do that.
As she heard her mommy asked her about if she was dry, Savannah felt the need that she needed to go badly. The girl got up from her mommy’s lap and just ran up the stairs to her bathroom, she was hoping that she could make it so she could show her mom that she was a big girl. Savannah opened the door to her bathroom and just ran as she stood in front of her potty, she looked down at her pull ups and shorts, she was damp. Her green pants were wet, she was disheartened, she had missed again. The girl sat on the floor on giant puddle a couple feet from her potty, she tucked her knees under her chin. Savannah just started crying loudly, she would never make it in time, she just wanted to give up and never try again.
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Post by ALYSSA JANE WILLIAMS on Jul 15, 2011 14:52:37 GMT -5
Alyssa was a little bit in shock. No. She didn't have the heart to punish Savannah, they'd only made the deal less than a minuet ago! "Oh Savvy..." she sighed as she got up, and raced towards the sound of the crying She walked into the bathroom, and could see that Savannah indeed hadn't made it. "Oh Savannah.." she sighed. She was just as hurt as Savannah. Now, she'd have to go through with what she'd said was going to happen. She walked over to her daughter and picked her up, setting her on her feet, out of the puddle of course. She helped the child out of her shorts, and than pull up. She was sad for Savannah, and wished that it'd not happen this quickly. She got a wet wipe, and wiped Savannah down. She sighed, and held Savannah's hand as she lead her down the hall to her own bedroom. Alyssa looked around the room she shared with her husband, and for a while, she'd shared it with her children, as when her two eldest daughters were young, they all ways managed to crawl into their bed if the woke up. She walked over to the side of the bed, and held Savannah's hand in her own. "You...know what happens now Savannah..." she said sadly.
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Post by princess on Jul 15, 2011 15:45:08 GMT -5
Savannah was embarrassed, she failed again and could not even keep her end of the bargain. Her mommy was not going trust her anymore, she probably was going revoke all her big girl privileges. She knew there was going be consequences for what she done, even if she could not help it. But she had deal with her mommy and she had to live up to her end of the deal even if she hated it. Savannah did not want admit what could happen,but she knew that the consequences were going be real. She wanted to just run and hide in her play room or bedroom, but things could only get worse if she did that. And just simple punishment could turn into a grounding or maybe 2 months going bed early, she did not want that. The girl just wanted to get this over with, she was very unlucky. But at least, she was proud of herself that she had tried to make to the potty even if it was unsuccessful. After her punishment, she was going be big girl and walk to the fridge and put her frowny face on her potty chart.
The girl stared down at her pull ups, they had lost their colors and the disney characters had disappeared. Her disney princesses on her pull ups were probably disappointed on her, that girl her age could make it to the potty. Savannah sobbed as she held her mommy’s hands, she knew what was coming. The girl was prepare for her punishment even she did not want it but she knew it was part of growing up. She looked at her Mother as she sighted, ”Yes,I’m going be punished then frowny face is going up on my potty chart.”She paused, ”Mommy,you think Disney Princess on my pull ups are disappoint in me for not make it to the potty?”She looked in shame and just gulped as she waited for her punishment to be over.
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Post by ALYSSA JANE WILLIAMS on Jul 15, 2011 18:19:56 GMT -5
"Right." Alyssa said, than shook her head. "I'm sure their not disappointed in you... and neither am I." She lifted Savannah up, and placed her over her lap, face down so her middle was supported by her thighs. She pulled the brim of Savannah's T-shirt up a bit so it wouldn't get in the way. She than took both of Savannah's hands, and pinned them behind her back, as if she were wearing hand cuffs, but the position wasn't to painful. She adjusted her a bit, and rested her right hand on the child's bottom. she gave it a slight pat. "Ready?" she asked, making sure the child wouldn't be too shocked when it began.
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